42 Days of Gratitude: Days 20, 21, and 22

I have had another huge breakthrough this week; a revelation about being judgmental. I have worked on this character trait (read: flaw) directly for over 30 years. I made a wee bit of progress but it seemed to be part of my personality (according to the Myers-Briggs tests). I was off the charts with J (=judgment).

And in the midst of a diametrically opposed situation I found myself unable to pass judgment. For 54 years I couldn’t help BUT pass judgments; quick and fast. But now my mind was so open my brains fell out! And that felt delicious. Now after five days I still cannot bring myself to take sides, nor condemn anyone (except for perhaps the media whom I hold more than just a little contempt).

So my attitude of gratitude seems to be running in a 3 day cycle. I am not doing an empty daily exercise. I find myself being truly grateful in new ways. I am grateful for this transformation.